As human being we are social creatures who get attached to other humans. We are constantly seeking bonds with others and for most people being alone is akin to torture. However sometimes we hold on to relationships of all types even when another person clearly does not feel the same way or even "care." So in an attempt to unmask those devilish people I have compiled a list that illustrates what is means to show you care....
1) If someone cares about you they think about you and wonder how you are. "I hope Sally had a fun labor day weekend trip. I should send her a text and see how it went." The thought is followed up by some action text, phone call, messenger pigeon, etc...
2) If someone cares about you they ask you questions. A person who ask questions is usually genuinely interested in YOUR answer. If they don't care they will spend excessive time talking of only themselves and their likes. If someone ask you "What are you passionate about?" they really care about what you have to say and they will remember the answer.
3) If someone cares about you they are considerate of not only their own feeling but yours as well. For instance you may be an avid vegetarian and they a steak fanatic but maybe when they are with you they will refrain from the steak because they know it upsets you (all hypothetical of course).
4) If someone cares about you random things will remind you of that person. You may be perusing a store and see something and say "Wow Bob would really love that gardening hoe for springtime." You know the person's likes and things you associate with that person will remind you of them. If random things never make you think of other people you probably aren't very observant or you don't actually care.
5) If someone cares about you their word is their bond. They don't need to tell white lies, or make excuses, because they will %100 genuinely want to do the things they say they will do just because it will make you happy. We want to make the people we care about happy so we do things to ensure that. At the end of the day words mean very little actions will show you the truth. If someone cares about you they will show it.
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